Seriously. READ THIS. Even my slim readers. Even the guys. I’m sharing it because Dianne Sylvan says it so much better than I ever, ever could. She’s lived/living it, same as I am. She KNOWS. And she knows how to put it in better words than I do. Her blog is linked over in the sidebar, because I find what she writes interesting overall, not just because of this entry alone.
And if you have a comment to make on it to either of us, keep in mind her warning at the beginning, because I’m holding those rules too.